When is the right time to have kids?

**Noelani** · 26.08.2007, 14:29

Do you think it is right to have babies once you get married or is it better to wait a little. Now, I'm talking about planning. Of course if it happens accidentally the only right way to act is to have the baby. But the post is not about accidents. I am talking about planning. If you have the option to plan, when would you plan to have your baby when you got married.
I myself just got married and my mom really wants grandkids, but the thing is that I can't do that right now. I love kids and I really want kids, but not right now. I want to get my master's degree and then start thinking about babies.
What are your thoughts about these issues? Please share your opinion.

**Nataly** · 12.09.2007, 16:12

I think, that at first people need to live together without kids and enjoy each other. Than if you have a real wish to have a baby, you can do it))

**Noelani** · 13.09.2007, 00:56

that's what I think. You can always have kids, but you can't always be young. Plus if you are planning to go to a university for like 4-6 years, you will become extremely irritative and angry. That's not what I wanna give to my kids. I want to be ready socially and mentally to provide an excellent future and an excellent mother for them.

**Knopik** · 13.09.2007, 10:06

Darling few days ago I thought about it and now I see the topic about it)

A lot of people face such a problem as when it is better ta have a baby.
It's really difficult to combine the education with the family/ What I mean to say is that I wouldn't like to study being pregnant ot having a new born child, since I DO want to be concentrated only on a baby.